Glyn, a cool guy who I often chat to over at Twitter asked me if I frequently go out to bars and clubs alone, if so how I managed myself, and whether I walk around all night. The answer to the first part is yes, I do night game alone on a fairly regular basis, in clubs at least.
Clubs are great. The music, the dancing and, of course, the girls. But a lot of men can leave feeling demoralized if they strike out consistently all night. What you might not know, however, is that there are simple, straightforward ways to approach women and build attraction every time. The Right Approach.
Many people believe that the night starts when you enter the nightclub. The night starts when you step outside your place. Call friends on the phone, approach and talk to strangers on the street, talk to the people on the line in front of the club.
See, alcohol has the side effect of getting you drunk, and the drunker you are the harder it will be for you to focus. Interactions will be harder and you may not even notice when a girl is into you.
Clubs seem like the perfect place to pick up girls.
This is Crucial! The facts are that the music is sometimes too loud to speak to somebody.
You yell into her ear that your name is Daniel and they hear Michael or something. So body language, use it instead of talking and what will you talk about in a nightclub? The weather?
Get real. I see many guys falling victim to this one.
How to pick up a girl
Being too game-y early on is a terrible idea. She just came here to have fun and wants to spend the rest of the night having fun, not talking to some random guy who clearly wants to take her to their place and have sex. Early in the night all you have to do is befriend people.
Go around and throw high fives and compliments at people, talk for a couple of seconds and bounce away. Later in the night, when girls have had their fun and are ready to take it to the next level you can focus on one or a few and spend more time with her and maybe get her to come home with you. Not to mention how weird all that is, right?
How to hit on girls in the club (or not)
Well, girls hate that too, they are at a nightclub to drink, dance, and have fun. Assume Familiarity! Just embrace it and learn from it.
There are many gorgeous women at that venue, waiting for someone worthy and interesting to approach them and take them home:. This one is tricky. Some guys can just drink with their friends, dance and enjoy the night then see a hot girl and instantly walk up to her and pick her up. Sounds like a great deal, count me in! Pretending to be this super-cool dude can backfire tremendously and leave you with damaged ego for the rest of the night or life… depends on how much you care.
How to approach a girl in a club (and bring her home with you)
And thus the more likely someone else will. Just keep on with the interaction and continue building it towards the end.
Another thing is that girls know that they can get sex whenever they like so they love the build-up prior to that. This is waaay too fun to not do in my opinion, which brings us nicely to:. Be hilarious.
No matter what happens to use it to amuse yourself and make fun of it. Be light-hearted and enjoy yourself. Free yourself of the outcome having sex with the girl and enjoy the process.
People will see that and will assume that something funny happened instead of you getting rejected. Now imagine that you get rejected again, but this time you turn around and you look at the ground.
Everyone can read the despair on your face and they just know what happened, you were brutally rejected. And why will they? All I wanted with this here article is to not let you into the pitfall most guys find themselves and thus increase your chances of picking up a girl in the nightclub exponentially. How to Pick Girls on Facebook.
By nerds Last updated Aug 5, There are many gorgeous women at that venue, waiting for someone worthy and interesting to approach them and take them home: This is waaay too fun to not do in my opinion, which brings us nicely to: You might also like More from author.
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